Well, dinner has been eaten, the dishes are drying in the rack, and a load of laundry is churning in the machine. Today we had a good class, got the accounting wrapped up, and got our residence permits and long term visas. There was even time for a good soccer match just before dark- from which my ankle is still throbbing.
It's been a good week for getting to know folks around here. Every day we walk past a man with two steaming pots emitting the most delicious smell right at dinner time. Somehow each time we walk by, Shinay convinces me to look in his pots and ask "How much is it?". I think she just wants an excuse to look in the pots. I keep telling her it's the same price as yesterday- but the game doesn't seem to get old. Tuesday evening was grey and rainy and cold and we had a handful of friends over. After chatting for a while, I ducked out and headed down the hill determined to finally buy dinner from the man with the two giant pots (who must have been thoroughly bewildered as to why we always inquired and never bought). I found him happily tending his pots under a multicolored umbrella cozied up against a little shop where his wife was selling some kind of bread. It was a good spot- sheltered from the wind on the one side by the shop and by the rain from a giant willow overhead. He seemed absolutely delighted when I pointed at the larger of his two great pots and said "two of those please". He pulled back the lid to a billow of steam and revealed about ten whole chickens- head and all- boiling in a yellow broth. He stirred them about with a long, two pronged instrument, selected two suitable looking specimens and with the prongs hooked them about the neck and dropped them into a pot of boiling spiced oil. Wait awhile he said, grinning. He then politely offered me a cigarette and a seat beside him under the umbrella. Politely declining the former, I accepted the latter and began to chat over the inevitable questions. Where are you from? What are you doing here? How long are you staying? I fumbled through the answers fairly enough- I think- until another patron arrived to distract my host. He went through the same process and as he was dropping the next chicken into the oil I saw that mine were finishing to a lovely golden-brown. A few minutes later, he fished my chickens out and placed them in a cooling pan. About that time a young woman with two guys who had been eyeing the chickens from a distance hastened over and quickly said- "I'll have this one" as she snatched a bag and began to help herself to my chicken. Luckily the chicken-vendor shooed her away and let her know in no uncertain terms that those particular birds were already spoken for and that they would have to wait. The raiding party looked rather chagrined at their failed attack- as they should have. He then bagged them up for me, threw in a couple of packets of chili-powder and spices, and wished me happily on my way.
On the trudge back up the hill, I decided to stop and see the lady tending a coal fire in a 55 gallon drum. On top she was roasting sweet potatoes ranging from moderately-small tubers to nearly football sized. I picked two of the largest ones, which she weighed out on a small stick-and-weight scale. With two bags full of steaming deliciousness- I scurried home to my hungry friends.
The place was quite warm and cheery when I arrived. I stepped into the middle of some conversation about cultural interactions- but it quickly dissolved as the prospect of dinner became much more real. I put one of the Nepalis to work cutting the chicken- a task to which he applied such gusto and such a large cleaver that we all prayed that he'd not lose a hand in the process. Shinay prepared noodles and I scooped out the potatoes and washed fruit. At last we sat down to a feast of chili-peanuts, pumpkin seeds, chicken, noodles, sweet potato, bananas, apples, oranges and soda-pop. It was fantastic- both eating and getting to know some of the other folks in town. Now every time we walk up or down the hill- the chicken vendor smiles and waves to us.
Besides the chicken-man, we're also getting to know a tofu-seller and a family that runs a vegetable shop on our corner. The husband and wife are quite friendly and mild and they often have their young child in the shop with them. We try to go at less-busy times and ask what different things are called. Today we were getting tomatoes to make chili and the husband asked if we have tomatoes in our country. It took me a while to figure out what he was asking- but eventually assured him that we do. The shop has a good selection of fruits and vegetables and some grains and cooking oils. There is also an older woman who is sometimes in the shop and she is often tending the young boy. We assume that she's the man's mother, but don't know for sure. At first she would lecture Shinay at length about how to buy vegetables and how to count change- but after about the fifth scolding she must have realized she wasn't getting through and has resigned herself to trying to sell me old watermelons instead.
The tofu seller is quite a nice fellow. His stall is tucked in a back corner of a large, covered market on South Little Street. He makes the tofu daily and sells three items: straight tofu, pressed tofu, and bags of soy milk. He's nice enough, and Shinay likes tofu and soy milk enough- that we thought it would be a good place for her to practice her Chinese for the first time. I walked Shinay to the market on my way to play soccer and released her to practice and, hopefully, get ingredients for dinner. Two hours later, I stepped out of the dark into a bright and wonderful smelling apartment. Success! Shinay was happy, the tofu seller was happy, and there was a great dinner waiting.
Whenever someone asks me how big the city is- I usually say quite small. It is, however, over 1 million people. I thought for while about why I perceive it as a small town and realized that it's because I know only a few English speakers, and so I think of the place as about 30 or 40 people with lots of space and stuff in between. I'm looking forward to seeing the city "grow" as I meet more local folks and learn how to communicate with them. I could go on about the guys I play soccer with, our language teachers, the Muslim family that sells me noodles, and the ice cream shop that always has a double chocolate bar waiting for Shinay- but I need to head to bed and have something to write later.